So it was my twelfth birthday and I had a few of my friends over for the night. I had a massive crush on one of them, but he was straight. We played spin the bottle with my older sister and it landed on me and him. We started to kiss and we both enjoyed it, I told him to come upstairs with me and we made out and yeah we fucked. It was awesome.
Many years ago I was with this girl. She was only about the third girl I’d ever really “dated.” I had been with a girl before her with whom I’d groped and felt up, but nothing under the clothes. So when I met the girl I lost my virginity with I was ready to do it finally. She was my age, both of us were a bit ahead of the game as far as puberty. We both looked older than we were. Early bloomers, I suppose. (also, I lost my virginity about a day or two before my 14th birthday). We’d been together a month by the time it happened, and had already given each other oral sex once or twice in the couple days leading up to the big event. But we could both tell we wanted to go further. One day at my house when no one was home we decided to put on a porn I stole from my uncle. This heated things up quick. I remember her asking me, “What position is your favorite?” I felt silly saying, “Doggy all the way!” because I had no experience, it was just the one that looked sexiest. She walked out of the living room and into my bedroom. I didn’t know what was going on so after a minute I went in there and she was on all fours, head down, ass up on my bed, and I asked, “What are you doing?” She replied, “Waiting.” My heart raced as I left and came back in a minute. Same position.
I thought, fuck it. I’m doing this. I went up to her on the bed, got behind her and started touching her ass. She unzipped her pants, and so did I, and I pulled them down with her panties and we both fiddled around with my penis until it finally went in. We didn’t even bother with taking off the rest of our clothes the first time. It was not very sexy in hindsight. She wasn’t very wet so it took a bit before I could start thrusting, but after a few moments we were both moaning and having a good time. And in no time (literally, 5 minutes later) I came inside her. I got an old shirt and she wiped it up and we laid on the bed and laughed and cuddled. And for the next two months, while we were still together, it was everyday, sometimes two or three times a day. And we wised up and finagled condoms and never again had sex without one.
I had always thought of myself as asexual, but when I graduated high school, I found myself being more and more attracted to women. I guess I was just a late bloomer. I had only ever dated one other girl, and we never even kissed. Randomly, during my third year of university, a girl came up to me at work and a few weeks later she asked me out on a date. We started casually dating and then things started to get serious. She had already been with someone and was 2 years older and I was a virgin, so things progressed slowly. She would get excited sometimes when we would kiss and I knew she wanted to have sex, but I was too afraid. She asked how long and I told her “within three months”…so I took almost the entire three months and then finally I knew it had to happen. When her parents were out, I went over and we watched a movie and then we began to make out and things got heated. We decided to make out in bed, and one thing led to another, and before I knew it, we were having sex. It felt great, but I was so afraid that I was only half hard, and though we went for like 40 minutes, I didn’t end up ejaculating. She was surprised at how good I was considering it was my first time, and we made sure to get lots of practice in. I don’t completely remember my first time, but I’m glad to say I waited for the right one, and that we are still together. I’ll marry her one day 
It had been 3 months since we started dated, i just turned 15 he was 17, babysitting one night he came over. The passion had been building up for weeks but terrified i forced myself to ignore it. Until I one night while making out i knew it was going to happen. Pants slid down, he slid in. It was uncomfortable but thrilling at the same time. It lasted all but 10 minutes.
I cried and felt ashamed, dirty, and destroyed. I gave away something i could never get back and for me it was hard to except that. I know i wasnt ready and i wish the timing and place were more approriate, but lets be honest. There is nothing appropriate about losing your virginity. Its supposed to be a mess. But that kid that i gave myself to is now a man and a man that i am proud to call my fiance. We have grown together we have helped each other grow and we have shared something that at the time may not have been beautiful but is now something we have to share, and to only grow and love deeper from.
So there’s this boy named Lamonte I was talking to him for over a month but never seen him in person , he was so sweet always texting me sweet things , one day we got a Lil freaky over text messages , he asked me if I was a virgin , I said yes , he said if you loose it to me I promise I will never leave , I ignore it and didn’t pay no attention , so we stopped talking for a while , but I had made a promise that I was going to go see him soon , so he texted me ,I asked him where he was at , so I had my mom dropped me off at his house , he was carrying stuff into his new house , he came up to me said hey baby and kissed me , so we went in a house , he went and sit on the couch , so I sit on his Laps , we started making out , touching each other , I gave him head for the first time and he fingered me , that was all that happened that day so I went home , we started texting about loosing our virginity to each other ,this was march 26 , march 27 we was talking about it all day while he was at school he said he was gone take it slow , he promised and everything , so , on the 28 I went over his house after he got home from school we had planned loosing it to each other that day , well I walked in and sit next to his mom on the couch watching a movie , he went upstairs to clean the room up, after he got done ,he called me upstairs I ignored him , then he called me again so I went upstairs ,we started kissing , he laid me down asked if I was ready I said no , he started playing the game and said tell me when your ready ,so I said come on I’m ready , he put a condom on , and we tried it but it hurt it really bad and I started crying so he stopped and try hugging me but I told him to get off me , then we went to my house and laid on the cough while he was rubbing my pussy till we fall asleep , till this day we still together , I love my man .
My freshman year of high school I met my now boyfriend of two years . We fell in love blah blah blah. He never pressured me about sex but on Halloween my friend and I met up with him and his friend . We were sitting on a 3 foot brick wall lol and he starts to make out with me (it sucked) but I just continued and then he forced two fingers in me which really hurt and I got on top and we started to do it until we noticed a huge blood puddle on the floor lol he popped my cherry but it didn’t hurt at all maybe it was because of adrenaline but anyways we broke up like a week later then a couple months later he got a new girl but no one could compare to me so I turned into his side bitch :/ but we are together now for two years and I love him soooo much and I don’t regret anything but being his side bitch for a month.
Name: Nycole
I finally made my first communion at 15 and since i was in the class with the 7 and 8 year olds, my parents dressed me the same as the little girls in a cute, poofy, top of the knees communion dress and veil with lace socks and white shoes.they had me wear the same cloth diaper and plastic pants[rubberpants] and under shirt under my dress like the little girls wear.after my party,my crush,who was 16 and i wen to to his house and his parents were out of town.we started necking and then he ran his hand under my dress and felt my diaper and rubberpants and asked me why i was wearing them and i told him they symbolize the girls purity of when they were baptized as babies.he got really aroused and unzipped my dress and pulled it off of me,then took off my under shirt.i now had just my veil,diaper and rubberpants and lace socks on.he pushed me to my knees and made me suck him,then he pulled out and led me to his bed and we laid on it and he then took my rubberpants off and unpinned my diaper and climbed on top of me and took my virginity.After wards we showered and cleaned up,then i re dressed and he walked me home,i was feeling guilty and ashamed all the way home! thats how i lmv!
Name: Marrissa L.
I was working my 1st job busing tables and then I saw her, the girl I liked from elementary through HS. Got her number and within a few days we were making out and one day she invited me in to her place. We got down to it and I slid into her but was interrupted by her sister coming home early and I was yet to finish.
Two weeks later I met another girl who I ended up having sex with in my car in the driver seat. I came inside her but it felt so good. So I ask, which do I consider losing my vcard?
Gender: Male
losing virginity was nothing special. I just wanted the first time to be over with. I had my eyes set on a punky skater guy. After hanging out during a concert, we ended up at his place and the make-out session had a definite goal. I remember being nervous, and cold, so my legs were shaking. Well, he was on top of me and I was thinking about how it hurt, but it wouldn’t hurt like this ever again. Between my thoughts I would tune back in to him trying to move me around and change position. I was like a sack of potatoes and stayed on my back, I didn’t know what to do! Embarrassing! Soon after, I would find out I had genital warts…and that set the tone for the rest of my sexual health…
I lost my virginity to the wrong guy, I knew him since 8th grade and I had the biggest crush on him. My freshman year is when we started to be sexual with each other. It started with pictures and then we started to hangout. I thought I was in love with him but I wasn’t he hurt me countless times but I didn’t care and still did stuff with him. So sophomore year towards the end of the year we decided to have sex, but I was having second thoughts because he had a girlfriend at the time. So the next morning around he picked me up we went to his house. We went up to his room and it was awkward at first because I didn’t know what to do. He lied back on a pillow and I moved up beside him and lay there, he was nudging me and say I’m waiting. So then he just pulled me up to him and started kissing me, he grabbed my thigh and I got on top of him an he took off my shirt, grabbed my boobs, and I’d kiss his neck. Then he got on top me and started fingering me and we kept kissing, then he tried to get me to give him a blowjob but I didn’t because i didn’t wanna do that my first time. So turns me over put the condoms on and tried to do it doggie style but it wasn’t working so he turned me back around we started kissing again and he thrusted and he just stopped I didn’t want him to stop but he already got up and took the condom off. We had sex again this summer, it was better, but nothing’s the same with him he never talks to me anymore, I miss him, even though I’m really just a “side chick”.