Nov 152015
 

I lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend of 5 months. I didn’t want something planned so our first time wasn’t very romantic, we didn’t have candles or background music, as the tv forces people to think that’s how our first times should be. Though for me, it was exactly what I wanted. We didn’t totally go unplanned, we had already talked about our first time, we bought condoms and I started taking the pill. We wanted to be safe, but we did all of that thinking that we wouldn’t be having sex this soon. We just prepare ourselves to what could happen and if some random day we both wanted it, we would be safe and prepared. He is very sweet and when I told him that for me it was okay losing my virginity to him he was a little shocked because he was prepared to wait much longer for me. He told me that he wanted to have sex with me too but he would only do it when I wanted, since when I told him I was prepared to lose my virginity to him I said that even though I wanted we should wait a little. So yesterday we were really steamed and he was provoking me with the condom on, rubbing his penis in my thigh and clitoris, and then I said I wanted him and because he already knew it wasn’t because I was getting hot and bothered and he knew that I really wanted him and I wasn’t saying that because of my state he decided to put it. I’m really down to earth and because of that I didn’t have a lot of expectations, I thought it would hurt a lot, I would bleed a lot, I didn’t expect our relationship to be closer and I wasn’t expecting he would last more than 30 seconds! I thought our first would be very awkward and in my opinion no first time ever between two virgins can be perfect. I really like him and the only reason for me to lose my virginity to him was because I knew I couldn’t find sweeter guy to be with and even though our relationship could end after this month or less, I wouldn’t regret giving it to him. I was mentally and physically prepared, and I didn’t thought of sex as a great thing but just a way of giving more of me to him and demonstrate how much I like him. When he put it in, it was really strange, but it was oddly satisfying because I really wanted to have sex with him! It didn’t hurt that much and I didn’t bleed, he after a minute or two was already orgasming but it was not that awful as I thought it would be. Low expectations made my first time an incredible experience, and even though both of us were virgins I don’t think of it has an awkward experience. Yes that were a lot of weird and new sensations, but it really wasn’t what I was expecting and I’m saying this in a good way. For me low expectations and communication were the base to my great first time having sex.

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 19
  • Current Age: 19
  • How would you categorize your story?: Loving
  • Country: Europe

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