For men: what qualifies as virginity loss?

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Oct 202014

On October 18, 2014 around 3:00 am I lost my virginity to my best friend. Now, it may seem crazy to most that I know the exact date and time of when I lost my virginity but my virginity has always been important to me. I was the typical “I’m gonna wait till I’m married” girl, but with age I realized that sex doesn’t have to be with someone you’re married to. I feel now that sex should be with someone you care for and someone who cares for you.

But back to my story…So it started that Wednesday, I stayed the night with him and nothing had gone down..just watched some Walking Dead and went to bed. He took me to school the next morning and everything was normal. We had already planned for me to stay with him the whole weekend cause we hadn’t seen each other in about two weeks, which was a while for us cause we spend almost everyday together. But that Friday we went to a haunted house with some friends and then hung out at a friends house till about 1:30 am. We go back to his house and watch some more Walking Dead. We’re about to go to sleep and he just says out of the blue “I’m hard” and I took a breath and I told him we could try to have sex..(I’ve tried before but I couldn’t get it to go all the way in.) So he put on a condom and slowly put it in. It hurt for a while but it wasn’t too bad. He was really sweet about it and kept asking if I was okay and if it hurt. We switched positions and it felt a lot better being on top. We finished with him on top. We laid in his bed afterward and just laughed and talked about it. And that’s how I lost my virginity..I don’t have a single regret and I’m surprisingly happy about not being a virgin anymore.

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 18
  • Current Age: 18
  • How would you categorize your story?: Happy
Oct 192014

I was having a movie night with a good friend and my crush. We cuddled as we watched movies and I felt loved. Then he started touching me and I was telling my self that I had to push the limit just a little. That he fingered me wouldn’t be a problem. That it was okay. I had planned to loose my virginity to a boyfriend in the future who would wait for me. But this guy just told me he had a condom if I was down. And because I wanted him to like me back so bad I said yes. We went down into the basement and he pulled off my PJ  and just started fucking me. I had thought it would be a lovely moment to remember. But it wasn’t. It hurt so bad. I felt like his penis was a knife inside of me. He made his business  and told me to go upstairs. And I did. He came after a few minutes and didn’t even look at me. He didn’t even speak to me. I felt so used and I cried myself to sleep. And when I woke up with my friend my crush had to gone home. I feel so worthless.

  • Name: That girl
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 15
  • Current Age: 15
  • How would you categorize your story?: Against my will
Oct 192014

By 24, I’d had my vibrators, but I’d never had sex with an actual person. This guy at work asked me out, and I figured ‘What the hell?’ The first night I stayed at his apartment, we had sex. Now, I told him I was a virgin from the start. I’d thought he’d have the decency to let me know that he was too. Or, if I’m mistaken and he actually wasn’t a virgin, that just makes it more pathetic, because it seriously sucked. It was rough, it hurt, and I had to deal with a UTI afterwards. You know, I wasn’t expecting miracles for my first time, but I was expecting honesty and some indication that he was actually trying. Needless to say, that relationship didn’t work out. A year and a few attempts with other people later, I realize part of the problem is that I’m asexual. Go figure.

  • Name: Green One
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 24
  • Current Age: 25
  • How would you categorize your story?: Regret
Oct 192014

Well it started as a normal day of me going to school I saw him with his friends. He looked so hot. Lets call him Kyle. Kyle was with his friends and I was with mine. We were talking about how hot he was and how I wish I could make him mine. Suddenly he starts walking over here and asks me if he could walk me home. In love with him I agree. Since my parents weren’t home. We started walking when he starts putting his hand around me I get this feeling that makes me want to grab him. We get to my house and I ask him if he wants to come in. He says yes. For a little while we are just talking then he starts scooting closer and closer until are bodies are stuck together. He leans in and starts Kissing me and I do it back. He starts going lower and lower and rubs my ass. I tell him I like it. I start moving down and I feel his dick it felt so good. Kyle then starts ripping off my shirt and immediately start sucking my boobs I start moaning telling him to eat my pussy so he takes of my pants and start eating it. I then take out his dick and start sucking it for about 10 minutes. He takes out a condom and asks me if I was sure, I tell him yes. he inserts me and I start to moan but that doesn’t stop Kyle from going faster. We eventually stop because he said he was gonna cum and I told him take it out. Overall I’m glad i lost my v card to Kyle because after it he asked me to be his girlfriend duh I said yes and now I’m 17 and we are still together. Btw he was 14 when I was twelve and now he is 19.

  • Name: Dayna
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 12
  • Current Age: 17
  • How would you categorize your story?: Young
Oct 192014

 I met this hot black guy who is 7 years older than me at a party last month. We instantly hit it off and started hanging out a lot and we both ended up liking each other. About 3 weeks ago we went on a date and we ended up kissing and almost did more. He never pressured me and said that we don’t have to have sex and we only will if I’m 100% ready for it. I used to be completely against having sex in high school but I felt comfortable enough with him and I felt like if I wanted to lose my virginity to anyone, it would be him. So yesterday we were supposed to go to the beach and as I was about to pick him up, he told me his roommates weren’t home. I told him I wanted to come inside and he was extremely surprised but excited. We ended up having sex and it was the best thing ever. He focused it all on me and made sure I had a good time. Although I still can’t believe that I’m no longer a virgin, I’m extremely happy about it. I’m not in love with him or anything and I don’t suddenly have a strong emotional attachment to him, but I just feel more comfortable around him now. And that is how the smart AP student and president of debate club lost her virginity.

  • Name: Good girl gone bad
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 16
  • Current Age: 16
  • How would you categorize your story?: Bi-racial