It was my senior year in high school and I was still a virgin. I was completely okay with this, and I even wanted to wait until marriage to have sex.
My best friend’s boyfriend was a freshman in college and invited some of our friends to visit him one night. It was me, my best friend, and two other friends. I’ve drank alcohol before this night, so I knew how much I could handle. The night was really fun. We met all of his friends and everyone was drinking so it was a really fun and chill environment. He decided to take us to a frat house and we really wanted to go because we’ve never been to one before. It was really cool at first, but then I recognized a guy which I met earlier. We made eye contact and stepped aside from everyone else and onto the dance floor. Things started getting heated; we started kissing and he fingered me on the dance floor. At first, I was really enjoying the attention. But then he blatantly asked me if I wanted to go have sex. Even though I always wanted to wait, I said yes because we were so caught up in the heat of the moment. We went upstairs searching for a room and only the bathroom was empty. We went in and locked the door. We started making out again and he was fingering me. He sat me on the sink when we had all our clothes off and then we did it. I was crying, partially because I was emotional due to the alcohol, but also because he was really rough and it hurt. He was nice about it and stopped when I asked him to. When we started to put all our clothes back on to leave, we had to ask for each other’s names. I never pictured it like that, at all. It was awkward and uncomfortable. I only told my friends that were there because I cried the whole way back to where we were staying that night. They were really supportive and made me feel a lot better.
Later that night I felt something dripping from my vagina. I went into the bathroom expecting to find blood but instead I saw his semen on my panties. At this point, I realized that he didn’t use a condom. I was paranoid for the next couple of weeks that I had an STD and that I was going to get pregnant. Even though I’m on birth control, it is still possible to get pregnant The next few nights, I cried myself to sleep. My virginity was really important to me and I lost it because of a drunken one night stand. In the end, I had no STD and I was not pregnant but it really worried me to no end. That is how I lost my V.
- Name: Sami
- Gender: Female
- Age of Virginity Loss: 16
- Current Age: 17
- How would you categorize your story?: Stranger
- Country: USA