For men: what qualifies as virginity loss?

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Sep 202014

So it happened about mid August of 2014, this girl whom I have known for a while told me she thought I was attractive. We went on a field trip on which she kissed me the next day she came over to my house while my father was away.

We made out for a while, then she showed me her boobs. We made out more, I took off my pants, she gave me a blowjob. She didn’t get to finish the blowjob because her mother called and asked when she would be home and she didn’t want to leave me with “blue balls”. So we ended up having unprotected sex in the doggy style position.

I’m not going to lie, I enjoyed it, but afterward there was an overwhelming feeling of regret and now I really wish I could have taken it all back.

  • Gender: Male
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 16
  • Current Age: 16
  • How would you categorize your story?: Regret
Sep 202014

I had reluctantly joined the dating app, Tinder this past summer. One of my very first “matches” and I really hit it off and started seeing each other quite often. He lived in another state though and was only down for an internship. We hadn’t had sex when he left at the end of summer. Fast forward to the middle of the semester and he said he was coming back to visit me and already booked a hotel room. I was thrilled but still unsure if I wanted to have sex with him, considering he didn’t know I was a virgin. As we were making out (and then some..) he said he brought condoms, that’s when I confessed I was a virgin.

He said he had never slept with a virgin before and always was curious, but no pressure to do it with him. After sleeping on it, and realizing I’m only getting older and my standards are just getting higher, I said fuck it.

IT WAS A BLOODY PAINFUL MESS. But I am so happy and relieved I did it with someone who I cared for rather than a drunken random. As we were leaving the hotel, I said, “Hey, I think I’m missing something. I think I lost my virginity, can you help me find it?” After pretending to look under the bed and in a few drawers, he said, “You know, I think it’s gone. You have lost your virginity.”

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 19
  • Current Age: 19
  • How would you categorize your story?: Corny
Sep 202014

I was working my 1st job busing tables and then I saw her, the girl I liked from elementary through HS. Got her number and within a few days we were making out and one day she invited me in to her place. We got down to it and I slid into her but was interrupted by her sister coming home early and I was yet to finish.

Two weeks later I met another girl who I ended up having sex with in my car in the driver seat. I came inside her but it felt so good. So I ask, which do I consider losing my vcard?

  • Gender: Male
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 18
  • Current Age: 26
  • How would you categorize your story?: Immature
Sep 202014

A week ago I was hanging out with my boyfriend of two weeks, we were hanging out in my room alone. I had never planned on losing my virginity at 14, and especially not after being with someone for only two weeks. I’m a straight A student and my parents trust me not to do anything. We had started doing things like fingering a couple days before that.

Me being a virgin didn’t understand how fast things could turn. So how it happened…. we were hanging out in my room and we started kissing, then making out and he started to finger me. He then got on top of me and we contined to kiss. and it happened. I don’t regret a thing, he’s so sweet about it and I’m happy it was with him. He’s the type of guy I’ve always visualized as perfect for me ♡♥♡

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 14
  • Current Age: 14
  • How would you categorize your story?: Young
Sep 202014

I’d been riding the bus to a class every day during the winter. I instantly noticed this guy who always sat a few seats behind me with his friend. We’ll call him Al. Al and I started talking, and I really started liking him. Near the end of the year I was at his house for a small friend movie night thing. Everyone left, leaving Al and I alone in his house. I couldn’t help myself and he didn’t stop me. He was careful, it didn’t hurt much thanks to pre-actions. After I got used to the pain it started feeling great, and Al added to it by saying the sexiest things. We’ve turned this into a semi-regular thing. I regret nothing, LMV.

  • Name: Charlotte
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 16
  • Current Age: 17
  • How would you categorize your story?: Sexy