I was 22 when I lost my virginity to the love of my life. Evan and I were high school sweethearts. We were friends through middle school and dated the first three years of high school. We were head over heels completely in love. Everyone though we were going to get married, ourselves included. I was 17, he was 18 when we broke up because my parents divorced and I moved with my mom across state. He and I never talked again really, and it was the hardest thing I had to go through. It was how I moved on. Fast forward 5 years and I’m at a party in college, my senior year. I was never big on drinking or partying, but I always attended and had tons of fun. I was about to graduate so I had to get all of my partying over before it was too late.
This night, I got more buzzed than normal. I thought I was having hallucinations when I saw Evan across the room. This stuff only happened in soap operas. We both made eye contact and the last 8 years flashed before my eyes. He was my first kiss, took me on my first date, I wanted him to be my first one. I remember this day like it was yesterday. I led him outside and ended up going back to his apartment with him, he had gotten a job near the college I had been going to and we never even knew it. I’m not sure how he got to that party. We spent hours talking and he finally took my face in his hands and we shared an epic kiss, just like from the movies.
We had always talked about losing our virginity to each other, it was a really big dream of ours. And we had saved ourselves still after all the time that had passed. We made really slow passionate love that night. It lasted hours, but was slow and gentle. I still had my hymen intact so it was really painful and there was a lot of blood. He held my hand through it all and was very comforting. The love I felt back in high school was still there and it was like we never were never apart. When we woke up the next morning we just Laid there in silence, realizing all of our teenage dreams had come true.
At 25, we got married last spring and we have our first baby on the way. It’s a girl! But, that is the magical story of how I lost my V. I encourage all girls to save their first time for the one you are meant to be with, and waiting makes all the difference. If he can’t wait for you, he is not the one for you.
- Gender: Female
- Age of Virginity Loss: 22
- Current Age: 26
- How would you categorize your story?: Loving
- Country: Usa