Jan 042016

I was backpacking in South America this summer, working at hostels for free room and board. I had been in Quito, Ecuador for a few weeks, and I was getting a little bored. It was risky to go outside at night in that part of town, and I worked most of the day. I was getting tired of being harassed on the street all the time, and was looking for a good time with fun people after weeks of dealing with asshole European guests who pissed in the patio, did loads of coke and had sex in the communal dorms. I was walking back from the market one day when a truck passed by, and I realized they were handing out fliers for gay pride!! It was that day!! I went back to the hostel and had to miss the parade because I was working. But I knew there was a big party going on afterwards, and I was definitely in the right neighborhood. A moderately slutty outfit (for Quito at least) and 2 shots of tequila later, I was on my way out to this gay club one block away. Waiting in line I met these 3 18 year-old boys who were seniors in high school and liked Demi Lovato. As far as I was concerned, this was my new posse. It took a long time in this freaking LINE (but it makes sense, gay bar, gay pride, you know). When I finally made it up, they said my drivers license wouldnt work for ID, so I had to run back to the hostel and get my passport and held onto my purse verrry tightly for the rest of the night. The place was packed, and after grabbing a beer, this girl in a purple flannel asked me to dance. I said yes, and we basically made out all night. She was a university student, chemistry major and so were her two friends, another girl and a boy. She told me her name but I quickly forgot, and once she found out my name (hint) she would call herself Romeo and me Julieta for the rest of the night. I stuck around because she was sweet, and went back with her and her crew. Her friend had a girlfriend who we drove back with, and we dropped her off at her place, after which the friend told me a sob story about how she had a boyfriend and had to keep their relationship a secret from her family. Really sad stuff. Then we made it to their place, although from the decor I’m pretty sure it was somebody’s grandma’s house. They tried to buy more alcy from this closed street vendor but failed, as it was 2 in the morning. We went to the house, my boo went down on me in the bathroom, and we listened to classic rock together until the wee hours of the night. Then we went to bed, and we shared the top bunk of this bunk bed (clearly not her house) and went back to business. I actually forgot I had a diva cup in because my period just ended and she was like ‘que es esto’ and I was like ‘que? FUCK!’ it was really embarrassing lmao. but she was good, and I tried to return the favor but she was like honey no you’re terrible which is fair cause I was a virgin. I actually cut things short, well-knowing I had work the next morning and wanted her to stop touching me, so I tried to sleep for like 2 hours, and some alone on her phone kept going off but she wouldn’t wake up, so I kept turning it off for her. Finally, at 6 AM I climbed over her and jumped off the bunk bed, miraculously not waking anyone up. I realized I had no cash on me, and all I had was my passport, a debit card that only works in the states, and GOD FREAKIN BLESS my phone with google maps on a tiny data plan. I scrounged the downstairs for food/spare cash to no avail, and left, realizing I was 6 miles south of my hostel. With no way to get money for a taxi, I decided to walk. In shorts and open-toed sandals. I passed llamas. I passed dumped groceries. I passed gangs of street dogs. Sooo many hisses and ‘hola bonita’s and whistles and ticks and honks I was exasperated. If any of you know the geography of Quito, at midtown there is this enormous mountain-like hill with a giant angel on top. Since it is technically considered a park, I tried to climb up, but was halted halfway by a street full of aggressive dogs barking at me. Luckily only one was able to get to me, and I left the way I came, walking around the highway, through the old city, and eventually the new city where I was staying. A few blocks from the hostel (I was so close!!) a man approached me asking something about money in garbled spanish before promptly trying to snatch my purse. But I had been warned so much about pickpocketers I had an over-the-shoulder purse and a keyring in the zipper hole that I kept my thumb through at all times. Because I put up a fight and ran a block, he gave up and proceeded to try this on someone else. A block later I saw a police car, and considered telling them, but remembered I didn’t have stellar experiences with cops in this country after that time a museum security guard kept following me around and hitting on me. I returned to the hostel exasperated, and shaking a bit from adrenaline. I took a shower and got ready for work that day.

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 19
  • Current Age: 20
  • How would you categorize your story?: Stranger
  • Country:USA
Aug 092015

I met this girl Alyssa at summer camp . We became really close friends.  We are both bi and we’re really open about it so one day we and another one of our friends had a sleepover at our other friends house and we were talking after she went to bed and we both said how we liked each other. So the next week at summer camp we ditched the cafeteria for lunch and went to go find a private cabin. We started making out and we took off our bras and felt each other up. Then we fingered each other but we did it really quietly so nobody would find us. Anyway it was amazing and we still do it all the time. And that’s the story of the first time I had sex.

  • Name: Jessyca
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 16
  • Current Age: 16
  • How would you categorize your story?: Sexy
  • Country: Usa
Mar 232015

I was 12 and 8 months, she was just barely. So I was dating this girl for three months, and we were really happy together. We started making out, and I told her to stop me if she wasn’t ready, and she did so we just kissed for a while, in our underwear. I was completely topless, she was wearing this little orange tank top and cute pink pajama bottoms with hearts on them. About a month later, we went out dancing/roller skating on New Year’s. We got back at about two in the morning, and we were all hyped up on Monster energy drinks and had talked until maybe 3, and then we started kissing. It was on and off, and slow, but I remember just how her body looked in the light. We took, like, 2-3 hours to actually “do it,” but I know it ended at five in the morning and we went to get breakfast. She and I stayed together for 3 1/2 years, on and off. I still care for her deeply, to this day, and we aren’t going to get back together, but we are close friends and care for each other. I think we were too young, but it was out of love and it was awesome. It was awkward and scary, but we were able to laugh throughout. After that, we had sex far too much, but oh, well! A lot of people don’t count it because it was girl and girl, but I do. I count anything done out of consent and thinking of it as losing it, is losing it. (guy and guy anal, thinking of it as sex = sex, rape = not sex, girl and guy blowjob, not considering it sex = not sex) Got it? Either way, it was good, and I don’t regret it. Maybe I could’ve been older, but whatever. It counts, and that’s how I didn’t LOSE it, I gave her a nice wrapped box with it in there.

  • Name: Lane
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 12
  • Current Age: 15
  • How would you categorize your story?: Loving
  • Country: USA
Oct 262014

I lost my virginity when I was sixteen. It was during an “all girls weekend” or so it was supposed to be. My best friend, Lily (lets call her Lily), was spending the weekend at my house because my parents were gone and I hadn’t spent any time with her in a week or so due to cheer & dance for both of us. We were sitting in my living room and we were watching a raunchy film (go figures) and she announced she was horny. We both erupted into a fit of giggles and then she suggested we try as she put it “the ol’ lesbian thing”. I laughed and said “Let’s do it.” I’m always the person to be down for anything. We looked up “how to do it” online and jokingly got all dressed up in sexy outfits. We spent a good hour dressing ourselves up. I was a cat and Lily decided to be a turtle (classic Lily). We started by “lubricating” ourselves with baby oil and she slipped two fingers into me and started pumping. I have to say it was pretty amazing. We giggled through the entire thing and at the end, we just collapsed and watched more movies.

It was fun and giggly. I’m a heterosexual (so is Lily) so we haven’t done it again. We both have boyfriends who got a real kick out of the stories and admitted to experimenting once or twice themselves. But push comes to shove, it was fun and it was comfortable. I wouldn’t have wanted to lose my virginity to anybody else.

  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 17
  • Current Age: 17
  • How would you categorize your story?: Awesome
Sep 142014

My friend Katie had a sucky week for midterms and told me we should get drunk. So we went to my house and she had about 11 shots of vodka while i had around 5 or 6. It was our first time being drunk so we didn’t know how to mange our alcohol. Everything was spinning and I was paranoid as fuck because I kept expecting my whitey tighty parents to come home. I had kissed and made out with girls before but nothing else.

All the sudden Katie kissed me and I was like, “What the hell?” Then we started making out and she sloppily whispered into my ear, “wE sHoUlD hAvE sEx” I laughed cause I thought she was joking. I went to go upstairs for a second then came back down and she was undressing. I was freaked out because I had never shown any romantic interest towards a girl. So we fucked, and two minutes into it, I really didn’t want to and kept telling her to stop but she didn’t, then she threw up all over her floor. Long story short I learned I wasn’t into girls or vodka.

  • Name: Jaylen
  • Gender: Female
  • Age of Virginity Loss: 13
  • Current Age: 14
  • How would you categorize your story?: Against my will